Living with Care: Pat’s Journey Outside Institutions
David talks about why live‑in care has been so good for Pat. Having the same carers for a long time means they feel like part of the family, which is very different from the more impersonal feel of a care home. At home, Pat’s life still feels normal, and she can stay connected to the people who visit her — something that often gets lost in care homes.
David also describes visiting care homes and noticing how little staff often know about the amazing lives residents have lived.
He ends by celebrating Pat’s life: her success as a children’s author, the honorary degree she received from Bath University, and the sadness that her illness now prevents her from knowing how much her work still matters.










